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Oct
23
The Flaw in the Shift From Stuff to Experiences

The Flaw in the Shift From Stuff to Experiences

We can spend so much time, money and energy chasing the experiences (highlights) that we devalue what is right in front of us
3 min read
Oct
16
The Sooner We Learn This, The Better Off We'll Be

The Sooner We Learn This, The Better Off We'll Be

...the struggle the salmon faced in doing what they were created to do, didn't stop them from doing it. In fact, they anticipate the struggle and still go back every year...
2 min read
Oct
09
What Do a Therapist, Pastor, Life Coach, Entrepreneur, & UPS Driver Have in Common?

What Do a Therapist, Pastor, Life Coach, Entrepreneur, & UPS Driver Have in Common?

To the degree that we can live out our calling in our work, we will find meaning in it. And I'm convinced that people don't want retirement from work, but retirement from meaningless work.
2 min read
Oct
02
We Don't Want Them, But We Need Them to Thrive

We Don't Want Them, But We Need Them to Thrive

look at last week's Ryder Cup. When the normal rules of golf etiquette are thrown out for the sake of competition, chaos ensues. The fans, even the players and caddies acted in ways they normally wouldn't, because the rules disappeared.
3 min read
Sep
25
Instead of Trying to Be the Best...Do This Instead

Instead of Trying to Be the Best...Do This Instead

lets be honest; the number of people who will be crowned the best, in almost anything is extremely small. The chances of any of us being the best at something (my "Best dad ever" t-shirt notwithstanding) is slim
3 min read
Sep
18
Five Keys To 36 Years of Marriage...and Counting

Five Keys To 36 Years of Marriage...and Counting

I believe our marriage has lasted this long, in part, because we have some foundational values, in common.
5 min read
Sep
11
Charlie Kirk's Death Will Be Politicized...and Maybe That's the Problem.

Charlie Kirk's Death Will Be Politicized...and Maybe That's the Problem.

Charlie Kirk's death is no doubt going to garner a lot of attention and by now your newsfeeds are likely filled with it too. There will be people who celebrate his death and those who mourn, but most will politicize his death in one way or another.
3 min read
Sep
04
Are You Successful? A Clear Way to Know...And a Cautionary Tale

Are You Successful? A Clear Way to Know...And a Cautionary Tale

...if you're successful in your work but not successful at home, then you're not successful
3 min read
Aug
21
Loneliness Is Everything It's Cracked Up to Be

Loneliness Is Everything It's Cracked Up to Be

I would say, the more digitally connected we are, the less emotionally connected we will be.
2 min read
Aug
14
Life Moves Fast...Then It Stops

Life Moves Fast...Then It Stops

Funerals are opportunities to celebrate a life, and one another as we hold each othr up, in times of grief and sorrow. But I'm afraid that not long after the reception, many of us go back to being busy and living frantic lives without direction.
3 min read